He knew exactly what he was doing. He couldn’t stand his sister and hated her with venom so he sabotaged her life and took her child to destroy them and he succeeded. He made one crucial mistake, do you know what the mistake is?
When I lived in Nigeria the Taiwanese raised me and that is the end of that. I married into the Twainese Culture and my dowery was paid to my grandparents
The Taiwanese taught me how to cook, the value of education and more. When Chukes Okoro wrote you wouldn’t believe I came from the same parents that is the only compliment he has ever given me and I puff out my chest with pride. I am my father’s daughter.
There is this man who said this loudly:
The only reason I sleep with white women is to get them back for what they did to us during the slave trade.
The response was, how does that work out we are in 1993 neither you nor the women were around during the slave trade.
Then, he goes and marries one. The father of the bride before the marriage gave the man 10,000. Have a guess why?
I’m sorry to hear that. It’s important to note that slavery is a terrible part of history that should never be repeated. It’s also important to note that white women were active and violent participants in the slave market. They bought, sold, managed and sought the return of enslaved people, in whom they had a vested economic interest 1.
Now, observe what he did to this sister’s child out of revenge.
Daddy kept on asking me a number of questions, one of those questions was why did Chukemeka Okoro by his mother a house?
Nena, You know if Biola was alive he would have divorced her by now?
My father realised Uncle Biola became my true friend. My father respected that. I prefer to remember my Uncle Biola as the clever and healthy man that he was. I ran away when he was dying. The day of his funeral I took off work and Okezie later joined me to remember Uncle Biola.
My father made peace with his former best friend. Uncle Biola, Daddy and Okezie have all transitioned. They have gone forever.
When Okezie passed away I couldn’t believe the brother I was left with. That was so unfair. Then, in his own words, Chukes did say….
My father questioned me too.
My father
He wanted to know about Chukes and his relationship with Okezie before Okezie passed away. Chukes found Okezie dead. There is more to this story.
Anyway, the video of my father’s burial homes in on so many issues about the relationship between Chukes, his father, and Okezie. Most importantly, my father’s second wife and her relationship with Chukes.
Daddy died. Daddy has gone forever. I have joined the club of those who lose a parent they do love. I now truly do understand the feeling. My father’s village must be heartbroken as I am, too. My poor child.
Angel To be continued ⏩
I have learned that understanding what happened to you and those you love is vital to moving past old hurts and stepping in to a better life.
I am so fortunate Daddy and I spent his time with me talking about our past. My father told me the truth as to why I was sent to Nigeria. My late father’s narrative make absolute sense to me unlike the version his ex-wife and his second son did spew to stupid adults as he flashed his cash.
Nena, I sued Biola and I named you as my witness.
Issac Okoro
As long as I do live I will always love Okezie and Daddy. My love for Daddy has shone wherever I do go. ‘How is your father’ , used to be the first thing people would say to me. Driving or walking around the Borough of Waltham Forest and Middlesex University people would yell to greet me always with, how’s your Dad?
My father paid for my graduation party. There was a big meeting with all the elders. Getting the money from Daddy was like drawing blood from stone. Eventually, the preparation for the party was underway. Fliers were printed, catering planned, a year after Okezie’s passing. The last party I did have everybody wanted to know where Okezie was ask Chukes Okoro what he had done to Okezie and I. The graduation party was talked about thereafter as the highlight of the year. Just the same as with Okezie’s funeral all stops were pulled out. I had taken the memory of my late brother to ITV, most of the nation had watched the short programme 5 minutes before the 6 O’clock New – An Investigation into a Healthcare Policy Concerning Sickle Cell Anaemia Disease (1996) Okezie was my case study and he passed away half way through my research.
Anyway, my father went on as if the party was his idea. I let Daddy be. That is what my Daddy was like, proud.
On the night I found out of my father’s passing I am so happy I never followed the advise to knock out Mrs. Mercy Okoro. A couple of weeks later I recalled my father screaming, ‘don’t trust her’. I have only heard my father scream twice in my life. I searched online for my father’s death certificate, couldn’t find it. Around 3am I reported my father missing and Scotland Yard called me back 1/2 half an hour later.
One night I said to my brothers after watching Top of the Pops we too can sing Rappers Delight. Every night we would practice, I was the conductor. It took sometime. Then one night I said it is time to get the show on the road. Okezie and Chukes took turns completing the task. When it was my turn I stopped halfway through so Okezie and Chukes took over; whilst I danced.
When Okezie passed away I lost two brothers and my parents. For all my life Okezie was my shining light. Daddy, Okezie and I always dancing together. Sometimes I would observe Chukes staring at us looking lost because he couldn’t dance then I would try to involve him when that failed we would forget about him as we danced to our hearts content.
Think of James Brown that was my father to a T. My father never believed in Pubs he was a house party man. Many a time Daddy would be dancing and our relatives would be standing in a circle watching my father do the splits and more. My father would eventually call his children to join him, Okezie and I would jump in. The first two men in my life I loved dearly and they loved me back in return. I still love them. Chukes was jealous of our love and so was his mother. That was it, jealousy.
A feeling of satisfaction comes with being kind and helping someone out. It helps you to heal as well.
Chukes Okoro never helped his first niece. In fact by the time he finished with my child…. As for me, from afar he observed the misery of my family, directing to our misery as his entertainment. The misery Chukes Okoro bestowed on Daddy was for also for entertainment. Occasionally Chukes Okoro would churn the pot telling people it is his sister who is the problem and all he wants to be is a loving brother but his sister never let him. Right. Instead of asking me, they saw Chukes Okoro and his cash with his white wife and believed him. I am happy the man who I love, my father never fell for the lies of Chukes Okoro. Daddy would often say to me, there is something that happened between you and Chukes, what was it?
My Daddy would sometimes look at me to say one day I will be buried beside my son Okezie. Okezie was Daddy’s favourite. Daddy never saw or spoke with his granddaughter before his passing away. He knew Chukes Okoro done something with his granddaughter. How do I know?
Daddy told me everytime Chukes Okoro says my name it is with hate. Mercy Okoro despised my late brother, she had an affair with Chukes Okoro and never once did he tell Mercy Okoro to treat Daddy, Okezie and I with respect. I guess Chukes Okoro must have hated as three. Daddy told me Chukes Okoro was using my words from the internet as his words to display his love for Okezie. When Daddy told me, we sat in silence caught up with our own thoughts.
First of all Chukes Okoro is a computer scientist using the internet to increase his image. It was reported Chukes Okoro is a multimillionaire. The information was originally derived from the internet. Do banks place your bank statements on the Internet for open viewing?
The video of the Father’s burial by the time you finish watching the video other questions come to play, for example is the video made for the gratification of Chukemeka Okoro or to celebrate the life of a father. Chukes Okoro never bothered to turn up to his own father’s funeral. Why?
Chukes Okoro is of the opinion he never attended his father’s funeral because he doesn’t know those people. What are you supposed to say to that?
The man in the coffin you are referring to as those people?
The man in the coffin is the father you purport to have taken care of. The question should be how?
Eminem and Kim continued to raise Alaina alongside their biological daughter Hailey and Kim’s youngest child Stevie, despite their own on-and-off relationship. The couple are now divorced.
Remember everything they do is loveless.
Okoro Development
https://towardchange.wordpress.com/2017/02/10/okoro-development/
Chukes Okoro is given £10,000.00 to marry his wife then never invited his father to the wedding. Yes, you got it right, Chukes Okoro never invited his father to his wedding and never bothered to attend his own father’s funeral.
EPILOGUE: Okezie Okoro had slept with every single one of Chukes Okoro’s girlfriends once they were discarded. If they weren’t discarded they would still beg Okezie for sex. Okezie found it tiresome. Chukes Okoro was dating a trainee social worker studying at Sussex University who lived with Chukes. She too begged Okezie for sex. Most of Chukes girlfriends were downtrodden but willing to spend their money on him. As Chukes said the more I treated them badly the more money they gave me.
Daddy would always ask me why Chukes and I would never get on, everytime my name is called Chukes would abuse my name. I never had the heart to tell my father.
My Father’s second wife is:
Mercy Okoro
Nena, what are you going to do when I am gone commit suicide? (crackling with joy)
I look at my father to give him a look and he laughs some more.
Two great things occurred upon my father’s death. Chukemeka Okoro paid to have this video made of my father’s burial and he wrote he paid a man to say he cared for our father. Anyway, Chukes wasted his money the elders in Nigeria are never stupid. When I watched the video I wanted to tell my father give me five and let me pour you a brandy. Chukemeka Okoro is hater and for 30 years Chukes Okoro alongside Mercy Okoro chipped at my father’s self esteem. Towards the end my father would call me when I lived in Oxford to say “I want to commit suicide”.
Narcissists
We have Chukemeka (Chukes) Okoro. Chukemeka has three sisters two of those are step-sisters he lived with those sisters longer than his biological sister.
First of all with a name like Chukes Okoro you would believe the man would have spent some time living in Nigeria. The man spent two weeks only in Nigeria in the early 1990’s. Please never excuse the obnoxious character to mean Chukes Okoro is displaying a Nigerian trait Chukes Okoro is a walking lie. Chukes Okoro is a fully blown Narcissist and always has been. When Daddy was kicked out of the family home the Narcissism emploded.
Daddy was never a Narcissist.
First question did Chukes Okoro have anything to do with the death of his late brother on Friday 5th May 1995?
Narcissists are sometimes drawn together. When Daddy left, Okezie and I were treated badly in Scarborough Road more so because I am a girl being told girls are to be detested and Chukes would always join in with the abuse Chukes had backup. The backup was never Okezie. Then one day my step-sisters moved into our family home their nightmare began. My step sisters never recovered they took my place when I left England.
Between Chukes and Daddy’s second wife Daddy never stood a chance.
When I couldn’t find my father I reported him missing to the police.
Before that, I had reported his second wife and his second son to the police for elder abuse I did so in the presence of my father. Chukes Okoro is the second son.
To be continued ⏩
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